There is so much shit with this topic! I am not saying I am a pro or anything, BUT I am damn good! Pushing your limits, and trying new things is a must in all facets of life. This is no exception. There are so many things to do while down there, why not try them all. A little lick here, a slurp there, nibble this or that, cup these, massage these. Its like a carnival ride with all its twists and turns! Girls, and guys, enjoy yourselves! This doesn't have to be something that is horrible, unpleasant, or disgusting.
Go with the curve.
Everyone is uniquely shaped. Each penis you will come in contact with is a different tool in itself. Your throat on the other hand only bends one way. A lot of people have problems with deep throating. It is a talent, and takes practice. The best advice I can give is go with the curve.
If the penis curves down, well then straight on blow jobs are going to be the best option. Let it curve down your throat. If it curves to the side, well do it from the side! Let him lay down and relax while you swallow his shaft and pleasure him. Remember, everyone gets a turn at pleasure. So, don't let your man get out of returning the favor!
If it curves up, well 69 style works well, or my favorite.....lay on your back on the bed, and hang your head over the edge while he stands in front of you. This not only gives you the right angle to get as much down your throat as possible, but he also gets the thrill of face fucking you!! Which in my opinion is also fucking HOT! You may be thinking "What if I gag well, TOO much." Easy, always have your hands on his hips or legs so that if he is doing too much for you, you can hold him back. Just a little presser against him like you are pushing him away and he should get the picture. Always make sure if you have a tell of some kind that the two of you are aware of it. If he doesn't know what that means he might not stop.....then you have a wonderful mess and an awkward situation to fix!
Don't be afraid to gag! This can not only be an amazing sign of his amazing man hood to your man, it can create saliva to lube up your task. Just don't puke. It is a lot easier than you might think. Your body always tells you when you have had enough. Listen to it! There is no harm in having to take a break to catch your breath or to avoid puking on your man. I am sure he will appreciate the thought.
Remember girls, guys are not much different from us, moisture is their friend as well! why do you think they like it when our pussies get so wet? It feels good. If you can't work up enough saliva you have options. You can go for the flavored edible lubes. Good Head is one I have used before. I on the other hand do not like all that flavor in the way of my fun. I prefer saliva over anything else, ever! lol How do i get enough saliva you ask. Well, you know how when you are sick and throwing up your mouth waters. Well, i gag myself on his cock. Makes me salivate. lol He also enjoys it. Men like to feel like they are penis gods! Make his penis gag you and he just got a confidence boost, because it was big enough to make you gag!
Have fun with what you do. Enjoy it. Listen to him, and gauge his reactions. If he moans, burn that act into your mind forever. If he jumps and looks at you weird, well that probably didn't feel so good. Men, you need to speak up too. If there is something you want done, or something that was done once and never gone back to. Tell us!!! How will we ever really have a clue what you want if you don't tell us?
Some good things to remember.
The head of the penis is usually very very sensitive, and even more so after the man cums. This can be painfully so after ejaculating for some men. Be careful! lol Right where the head meets the shaft, on the underneath, there is that special little slit on the head of the penis. Love it! i have found a lot of men are sensitive there almost like it is a clit. Think about just rubbing gently along your clit when it is swollen and ready to go.....amazing right? lol Well I like to treat that spot like a clit. i have even gotten a guy off just touching that spot.
There are some people who can not deep throat or even shallow throat? lol Use your hands! They are your friends! Holding the shaft with one hand, running your hand up and down in a liquid motion, while cupping and massaging the balls with the other, while you suck and lick and slurp away at the head of the penis can work wonders!
I like to start out slow and easy then work my way to the end. Too much stimulation too quick and all at once can ruin it for some guys. Tease him!! The most satisfying reaction I have ever got out of a man is the shiver. Let him lay down and relax before you start your work. Don't even touch him. Just run your mouth up the distance of his shaft, lips slightly apart, and breathing your hot wet breath along him. The thought of you so close he can almost feel you then the warm moist breath just hinting at what pleasures you have coming for him, makes him shiver. it never gets old for me!
Don't forget eye contact. That little look up at your man while you tease and please him can do wonders. Men love the idea that you are there to please them. You want them. you worship their cock. Tell them this with your eyes. I am not saying stare at them the whole time, but look up every so often. Even do something special and look at him with a "you liked that you dirty little boy, didn't you" look in your eyes, and tilted smile.
I shouldn't have to say this, but my huy friends tell me it apparently needs to be brought up. DO NOT SCRAPE YOUR TEETH! lol Most men don't like this. Think about it, do you want something sharp and hard scraping along your sensitive spots? My best technique is to curl your lip over your top teeth and stick your tongue out to cover the bottom ones. The tongue is an amazing muscle...it can be used to make any part of the penis quake with pleasure, don't forget this.
Since we are on a roll with don'ts. Don't forget pressure. Some men want their cock grabbed hard and squeezed, others want it gently caressed, while some are right in the middle. Always talk to your man about what he likes before hand. Don't be shy, your going to have his cock down your throat in a minute....nothing to be shy about. lol The pressure of your hand tightly grasping the cock can feel amazing. Think about it. Your pussy clenches up when you have sex....why is the pressure of your hands not a good idea? lol I like to pulsate the pressure of my hands, Just hold the cock with one hand while i pleasure with my tongue and lips. Well i pump my hand on it like a heart beat almost. I have learned with each partner I have been with what they like. Some like to have it squeezed at the very bottom of the shaft while i gag on it. Some like it to be squeezed while i tease the scar at the tip with my tongue. It is a matter of choice for the guy. Again, you will never know unless you talk or try it.
The balls. These deserve a whole section of their own! They are curious little toys indeed. Some men don't like them touched at all. Others want light massaging. Others want rough groping. Again, I can not stress enough TALK TO EACH OTHER!! A goof trick that all guys I have been with like, run your tongue from the very bottom underneath of the balls, all the way up the shaft and then swallow him as far as you can. Its a shock to them. lol They don't expect the swallowing part.
Swallowing...this is a whole paragraph in its own as well. lol Women what is wrong with you? No really! What is the point in holding the cum in your mouth till you find a place to spit it when you can just swallow it and be done with it? Its not bad for you. You aren't going to get sick from it. It is a natural product of the body. Yeah i know you all say it taste gross! Well, again why hold it in your mouth and taste it for longer when you can just swallow it!?!? I have no problem with the taste myself. Nothing should ever taste bad down there. If it does, you need to tell your man he needs to stay clean. No one wants to put their face into a sweaty dirty mess. Yeah I know they say there is stuff out there that changes the taste...always failed for me. Don't waste your money.
Hygiene is highly important when it comes to any sexual act. Men, please keep your junk clean. This is not only a preference but a health issue. There are so many germs and bacteria that can be down there if you are not careful. We don't want that gunk in our faces. I always think men should trim or shave also. We don't want a mouthful of hair either! We keep our pussies trimmed up all nice for you, give us the same respect. You don't have to cut it off completely. Just trim it short. Keep it tamed! lol
I hope I have covered all of your concerns. If you have any questions or specific concerns you can email me at onlycauseyourecurios@yahoo.com. Kisses loves!
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